The love blossoms: Lap 2

You are to find yourself at the start again. You are now to begin up again. You are trying to adapt to work→stress→stress-buster→repeat. Then one fine day as a result of your togetherness your partner tells you to be a parent soon. No longer you are at the end of the loop but you are at the beginning again the same, but now a new life created just places are interchanged. New relations are intervened from a son-of/daughter-of  to husband and wife to now father and mother.

You are to experience the same life but through a different pair of eyes. The next big day arrives you are to experience stress, trouble, pain in your belly or brain. When it’s all done you will find a new reason to live, a token for your love, your key to live the same life again. Just remember that child is your asset and not your investment.

You are having those tiny-tiny special moments with your child they’ll barely remember but you will never forget be it playing, feeding them, bathing fun and putting them to sleep. The way they hold your finger with their whole hand and just fall asleep. Their first walk, first word is your best memory.

The little ones just take you along with their life as though a spell was put over them to throw you down the memory lane of your life. You will see them go to school and miss your school days. Raising your child you’ll make mistakes, you’ll forgive them, you’ll take up crazy decisions for yourself for them along the path but what’s going to be kept safely in your mind is you’ll learn, you’ll grow with them. You will come to know the struggles your parents went through raising you.

At some point you will know whatever you have been through good days or bad, happiness or sorrow, celebrations and struggles. It doesn’t matter how much money you earned or how much you spent all that mattered you till that last day last breath of your life will be your memories you made created you will be carrying with your soul. your life looping might have ended but what about those lives you have inspired or helped, they carry a part of you with them. A pleasant way to be alive.

You have made mistakes, taken wrong decisions, but what’s important is that you have learned. You have known the fact that life is full of struggles and hard days- so just keep it in mind “When the going gets tough, the tough gets going”.